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Keeping love alive in your relationship from the man’s perspective…

Keeping the Love Alive

Here are some random thoughts on keeping the relationship strong.

This is from a man, for a man.

  • Most importantly is to make time for both of you.
  • Leave the kids home, keep the thoughts of work out of it and reconnect with your better half.
  • Another important aspect of relationships is to pay attention to the individual self. While you may take on many or all of your significant others personalities, hobbies or goals remember to do what makes you happy.
  • Do the things you enjoy, just because you are committed doesn’t mean you have to completely change who you are.
  • Always reassure her that you love her, even if you think it is obvious or that you feel the relationship is in a great place. Try telling her that you love her and not only right before bed or before hanging up the phone.  A random text message about your love for her or what you want to do to her or with her that night is a nice change.  REASSURE HER!
  • Another big key to a relationship is admitting you’re wrong when you are. Say you are sorry when you should. When she is quiet and something is obviously wrong don’t assume it is something you did or didn’t do.  Because you know what happens when you assume things right?  Ask her what is wrong and if she says nothing then just give her some space, she’ll come around.
  • Lastly, don’t get comfortable. Surprise her. A flower here, dropping her off a lunch, taking a surprise day off. It doesn’t need to be diamond earrings but the element of surprise goes a long way.  Just seeing you or that you are thinking about her is the real gift and she knows that.

Try to incorporate these things in your relationship and it will pay off. Don’t just do them when things seem bad.

 

What might you add to this list!?

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